LAST UPDATED: August 2026
By Natalie Chapman, Content Marketer for Passare
You’ve likely felt the shift: the "tried and true" traditions that sustained funeral homes for decades are losing their spark with today’s families. It’s frustrating when your level of care hasn't changed, but the way families want to receive it has changed.
So how do you come up with new ways to meet the needs of today’s families?
While it looks a little different for each funeral home, there are a few steps you can take to identify your approach, generate with new ideas, and try them out!
Take a look at how one funeral home followed these steps to innovate its business and connect with today’s families:
Sunset Memorial Park in Albuquerque, NM, wanted to increase brand awareness and draw people to its cemetery. The challenge was how to get people to come to a cemetery with no one to bury. Sunset Memorial Park teamed up with brand agency McKee Wallwork + Co. to find a unique solution. While researching, they discovered that 1 in 5 families had cremains in their homes that they had never scattered or placed anywhere.
Sunset Memorial, with the wrong mindset, could have easily created marketing materials and a campaign around selling more urns. Instead, they created an event called Scatter Day. Sunset Memorial Park opens its cemetery to the public and allows anyone to scatter their family’s ashes there. They now attract over 1,000 people a year.
Because they approached the problem with an innovative mindset, they had a major impact on their community and the families that were given a chance to grieve and give their loved ones a final resting place. As a result, the Sunset Memorial team has received national recognition, and hundreds of funeral homes across the country take part in their own Scatter Day in their communities.
Let’s dive into 7 ways you can improve your funeral home’s ability to adapt to industry changes, anticipate families' needs, and increase brand awareness.
Families are much different than they were 20 years ago or even 10 years ago. Many family members now live in different states rather than in the same town, and technology has become a main form of communication.
And their preferences for funerals have shifted as well.
So, if you continue to relate to families in the same way you always have, you might overlook a large group of them.
In 2021, Directors Investment Group (our parent company) and McKee Wallwork (a market research firm) joined forces to conduct the largest funeral consumer study in the nation. The study identified 7 unique types of funeral consumers, with each consumer type having their own set of views and preferences toward funerals. Knowing which types you're serving most often can shape everything from your marketing to your arrangement conversations. Read about each type in this article. >>>
Here are a few other ways you can use data to get to know today’s families:
The better you understand your families, the easier it becomes to serve them in ways they didn't even know they needed…or maybe in exactly the ways they’re looking for.
Community events build trust long before a family ever needs your services. You can open your funeral home up to the community by hosting, sponsoring, or participating in different events.
Sunset Memorial got creative with its Scatter Day event and was able to involve an entire community. How can you think outside the box for your next event?
Here are a few examples to get you thinking:
The key is to start thinking of how you can create value and events people want to attend, not ones that feel like a sales pitch. When your funeral home becomes a gathering place, your community starts to see you differently.
Want more ideas? Check out this community events guide from NFDA. >>>
We’re not suggesting you change everything or make your whole staff try something new. Start small. Ask your most change-conscious funeral director to incorporate new ideas and methods to see which resonate best with your families. Here are a few suggestions:
If you have a family's permission, you can also show them examples of past services you've done with real photos and setups. That way, families can see what they like or don't like.
Some of the most meaningful services aren't traditional at all. And sometimes, families don’t always know what to ask for. That’s where you get to put on your creative hat.
Here are a couple of different ideas to get you brainstorming:
If these types of services seem outside your usual offerings, that’s okay. That means they’re at least worth exploring! Providing new and different services can demonstrate your commitment to going above and beyond for families.
Most funeral homes have a social media page. But what about social media presence?
When you have a strong social media presence, your pages can actually help you promote your funeral home’s brand and build connections with families, staff members, and others online.
But building an online presence doesn't mean you have to become a full-time social media influencer. Here are a couple of post ideas to get you started:
You don't need to go viral. You just need to build a voice that makes families think of you first when it matters most.
And if you feel stressed by trying to do all of this on your own, don’t worry! You can work with a social media management service to get the content you want, reach more families with your posts, and grow your following.
The key to finding high-quality staff for your funeral home is to connect early and create a workplace where people thrive.
Check out these tips on how you can find and keep great hires:
Get in front of students early:
Build education partnerships:
Implement ways to keep people once they’re hired:
Well-equipped, driven employees will continue serving families with everything they've got. Investing in your team is investing in the families you serve.
When it comes to connecting with families, many of the ideas above are effective. But sometimes, starting from the bottom can be the most beneficial. Think about your back-end processes for a moment.
Are they inefficient? If so, they could be stealing from the time you could be spending with families.
With the right funeral home software, you can reduce time spent on tasks such as data entry, paperwork, or case organization, allowing you to spend more time with families.
Better yet, add technology to your processes that lets you connect with families online when needed.
Here are a few tools worth exploring:
And that's just scratching the surface. With Passare’s case management system, you can get access to tools that help you improve efficiency at every stage of a case. Learn more here.
Hopefully, these ideas will serve as a good starting point for you and your staff to begin adopting an innovative mindset and connecting with your digital families.
If you're ready to enhance your operations with technology, check out Passare. With our robust case management system, you'll be organized, save time on everyday tasks, and ultimately get time back in your day to connect with families (and try out some new ideas!).
Learn more in a demo with our team! 👇